David Norris writes

Dawg Days

You ever find yourself messing up like a big dawg when all you were trying to do was your best? You don’t even have to answer that question because I know the answer is yes. 

There you were, putting your best foot forward, minding your P’s and Q’s, when you stuck your big foot right in your mouth and nearly choked on it, sitting there flustered, trying to swallow your own words. I know; I’ve been there. I’ve been there for a day; I’ve been there for weeks when the day kept repeating itself like Bill Murray’s does in the movie Groundhawg Day. Shoot! Sometimes I feel like my whole life has been a Groundhawg Day, with the dead groundhawg tied on a string around my neck, and me forced to wander around the entire earth confessing my sins. My mother used to say we have a curse on us. 

There you sit in the boss’s office, ready to tell her how the changes she’s made at work have made your life better, but you start out by reminding her of how bad things used to be. She doesn’t let you finish. The groundhawg bites her on the leg, and she jumps up screaming at you! Before you realize what has happened, she’s booted you out of her office and slammed the door shut on your backside. No use to say you’re sorry; no use to try and say now what you should have said in the first place. You’ve just been dawged out. 

Or how about following all that good advice that people give us? I can remember when I was a boy of about twelve or thirteen. A big kid named Earl kept picking on me, and I told my granddaddy Bud about it. Bud said there was no problem: all I had to do was lie in wait to ambush my adversary, tackle him, and get on top of him, and then beat him while he was down. This sounded like a good plan to me. 

So one muggy fall afternoon, I was the first one off when the school bus stopped. And when Big Earl, one head taller and thirty pounds heavier than I am, came stepping down, I ran up behind him and sliced his legs out from under him with a rolling body block. Even a little guy can bring a big guy down if he hits him low and hard. He hit the ground with a great big WHUUFFF and somehow ended up on his back with me on his chest, both my knees on his shoulders, just whaling away. 

He put up with this for about fifteen seconds, just long enough for me to think it might work. Then he rather casually reached up, grabbed me by the shirt collar, flicked me off as if I were a bug, and proceeded to beat the daylights out of me. When I finally staggered home towards sundown, my face would have had to be searched for places that weren’t black and blue. I looked Bud hard in the eyes and said, “So much for your big ideas.” I dawged him out. 

And how about these days of being politically correct?

We live in a time when the toilets have become Female and Male, such ugly words to attach to ourselves, terms best saved for a biology lab. We have become a society afraid to be categorized by the gentility of ladies and gentlemen or the vigor of women and men. 

No, it’s a flavorless creature instead who walks out of today’s lavatory into the rooms and hallways, onto the busy streets of the modern world. The males greet the females, afraid to say “lady,” knowing full well not to dare say “girl,” and never, never, never, in a milllliioon years, even dream of saying “baby.” And with our lovers, where can love go when we can’t call one another pet names? Is it only in our songs that men still say, “C’mere, babe,” “Hey, doll,” “Be my lovergirl,” or “You my baby?” We’ve dawged ourselves out on that one. 

I might not know many things, but I do know one thing: there’s no shortage of dawg stories. As long as there have been people on this earth, there have been dawgs biting them. And still we go on, limping when one bites us on the foot, covering our behinds when one snaps at the seat of our pants, jumping out of the way when one goes for our throats. We have work dawg stories, we have family dawg stories, we have lover dawg stories. We have a dawg story for everything we have and everything we don’t have. 

That’s why I don’t own a dog any more.

David Norris shoots

Stairway up Phou Si, Luang Prabang

David Norris writes

Cupid's Bow

 

I haven’t been happy

enough to dance

since the last time

I did it, 30 years ago

Oh, I’ve danced

with some pretty women

I’ve watched them move

the way they do

You see, I was with a woman

walking drunk

through some woods

Later, we drove home at 35 mph

And that was on the interstate highway

Of course I was going

to leave her alone that night

Until she told me

I wanted to see her panties

And I did

She stood there by the kitchen sink

and peeled down the tops

of her jeans in 1971

They were black and

I don’t like black panties

on a woman

but she was just a girl

God I still tremble

when I say her name

She had a Cupid’s Bow mouth

painted her room in purples and white

But that is not why she

she was so unique

She was a painter

and she was a Catholic

Terry, I have revealed

your name and still no

one knows who you are

standing in the cornfields

He was a good boy

and he loved you in spite of

what happened

You got raped

Then he loved you and left

to go in the army

and he went to Germany

and he bought a sports car for the two of you

It was red like the passion

in the blood running

in your veins

when I kissed you

And then you said, “Yes,”

and then utterly told me “No!”

and then completely turned cold

Love is not a cheap word

It just becomes devalued

It depreciates like a fixed asset

Some invest in gold

Some believe in lead

And it’s in my feet

They won’t lift off the floor

I lose my balance

When I stand on one leg

Girls with Braids -- Wladyslaw T. Benda

David Norris shoots

CHIANG MAI FLOWER FESTIVAL

David Norris shoots

Christmas Day in Mexico Beach 2018

David Norris writes

Crying

I cry when she
comes I know her
then when she is
beyond her control
Her song whatever it is
comes inside me then
when we come together
It is one It is one It is
I cry sometimes She cries too
Her song My silence
Silent one

Crying Out -- Steve K 


 Go Away! Nearer! -- Robert Lenkiewicz